True morality cannot be defined in the absence of community and relationship. You cannot be moral all by yourself if your definition of self is limited to you. Beyond this, definition of self must extend to someone somewhat different or higher than us, a source of inspiration to be better than we are. Without this, our very definition of self and of morality becomes immoral and vain.
I am no Island
Don’t even want to be
I’m not one to pretend
That I am holier than thou
Left to my own devices
I will break every rule
Much more so,
If I have no regard or love
For the rule maker
So though I know who I am
I am also aware
Oh so very aware
Of the limits of me
I need a higher order
One somewhat different from me
I need to commune
To relate and discover
That the definition of me
Must extend beyond me